Secrets Ireland – Sex Toys

The highly popular Hitachi Magic Wand Massager has become an obsession with us lately. Made famous in porn movies, it has become iconic as a sex toy. We have been debating whether or not to start stocking them… so we have been over in the UK looking at the Hitachi Magic Wand and other imitation brand.

There is no doubt that the Hitachi Magic Wand is a powerful toy however it only has two power settings that are both highly intense. Another thing that keeps putting us off is that the wand plugs into the mains! Not only does it worry us from an electrical point of view but you must have it close to a power source to use it… not so practical. So, we started to have a good look around.

After visiting lots of suppliers and testing so many different vibrators (don’t get any thoughts… we just held them in our hands, shame really), we finally found the Wand Essential brand. These wands are an imitation of the Hitachi wand but are even better.

We picked up the Rechargeable 8 Speed wand. This is about the same size and weight as the Hitachi Magic Wand but with the added bonus of 8 speeds. This allows you to start off with a low vibration and ramp up the intensity.

We also got a mini Wand for those who like things a little more compact. This little AA battery powered massager. The speeds are adjustable and it carry’s 7 vibrating functions and so much pleasure.

These new toys should be in stock in two weeks and we are so excited to have them. We may have to make these part of the Christmas Bonus. Keep an eye out for them so that you can get yours before the staff snatch them all up!

Well, to say the word is changing is a bit of an understatement. This week the pope announced that he approves of condoms. He chose his words carefully though, he approves of them as a means to prevent death, i.e. to prevent the further spread of HIV. He has not specifically said that condoms can be used as a contraceptive, however the very idea of the acceptance of their use is a fantastic move for the Catholic Church.

Obviously we are not too caught up on religious views on sex, however we are excited by the Catholic Church seeing that condoms have a place in this world and their function is not just as a contraceptive but a tool to prevent the spread of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.

Condoms are an important part of anyone’s sexual adventures; they are vital in preventing the spread of sexual transmitted infections so we do encourage their use at all times. We believe that sex is fun, however you should yourself and your partner (even if they are for one night) Also there is a lot less of a mess to clean up afterwords.

Always have a condom in your bag or wallet. Have some fun with condoms and pick up some flavoured ones!

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A Tantric orgasm is a full body energy experience. G-spot stimulation is one way to access Tantric orgasms. The G-spot (Grafenberg spot) is a small, lima bean-shaped area on the upper side of the vaginal wall (tummy side), approximately 2-3 inches in. This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. When the G-spot is stimulated, usually through hard pushing or constant rubbing, it causes intense orgasmic feelings that most women say exceeds a normal orgasmic response. Tantric Orgasm

To stimulate the G-spot, pressure has to be applied on the upper wall of the vagina, AND the woman has to be extremely aroused. Blood rushes to the G-spot just as it does to the clitoris during sexual excitement. Therefore, any sexual position which maximizes pressure to this area increases the chance for a G-spot orgasm. The following 4 positions greatly increase the likelihood that a woman will experience a G-spot orgasm.

(1) Rear Entry. The Rear Entry position, when done correctly, maximizes potential for a G-spot orgasm because the man’s penis should rub on the upper wall of the woman’s vagina. To do this position correctly, the woman should kneel on all fours, her legs parted slightly. The woman should resist the urge to put her face down onto the bed, and instead try to keep her back arched slightly, with her elbows bent or her elbows up and locked. The entry angle changes dramatically when the woman leans forward into the bed. As the man enters her from behind, the sensation should be one of tight and full penetration. The woman may feel his penis hitting her cervix as this is often a good position to get full penetration. The man can change his penetration to hit the G-spot by pulling up on her hips and thrusting in a more downward motion.

(2) The Fusion. The Fusion position is a favorite in Kama Sutra. To get into this position, the man should sit on the bed or floor and extend his legs in front of him, and his arms behind him. The woman should then lower herself down onto his penis. Her legs should be up by his chest and bent, and her arms should be behind her and between his legs. She then uses a combination of her arms and her legs to “rock” herself on his penis in and in and out motion, sort of like a piston. This position may seem unlikely to produce a G-spot orgasm, but the angle and the seductive nature of the position make it highly erotic. The only bad drawback of this position is if you have bad knees, you will not be able to sustain it for long.

(3) The Flower Press. The Flower Press position is excellent for the G-spot orgasm, multiple orgasms, heavier male partners, heavier female partners, and pregnant women (earlier months). The woman lies on her back and allows the man to penetrate her, as in missionary position, but after penetration has been achieved, she then raises her legs up and back, until they are either on his shoulders or on his chest. The man kneels up against her and uses her thighs for support, and she can grab onto his hips to help bring him into her. This position allows for extreme penetration and his pelvic arch is against her clitoral area. It also provides a nice rubbing against the top of the vaginal wall because of the height of the man compared to the woman, which is what stimulates the G-spot.

(4) Rotated Woman. The Rotated Woman position is a favorite with both men and women alike because it offers excellent stimulation. To do it, the man lies flat on the bed and the woman lowers herself onto his penis facing BACKWARD toward his feet. Then, SLOWLY and CAREFULLY, she leans forward, until she is lying on top of him, her legs outstretched and her hands down by his feet. Then, she can slowly do a “figure 8” motion with her hips or just grab his ankles and slide herself up and down. Because she is lying down at this angle, her vagina is pulled taut, causing the penis to rub it tightly, hence the G-spot pressure. She also gets gentle clitoral rubbing by his testicles and legs, which is a pleasant and gentle surprise. The woman is completely in control here and can set the pace and the depth of the motion.

Tantric sex is meant both to enhance the physical sensations and to transform them into a vehicle for blissful insight. Women feel the orgasm from the G-spot or vaginal stimulation deeper inside their body, rather than as the localized feeling they have with clitoral stimulation. The whole-body orgasm is one of the Tantric methods for reaching a state of ecstasy.

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After Secrets Ireland asked me to do a review of the LELO Liv, I was so excited. They had told me that the LELO Toys were their best sellers and they wanted someone to give a non bias review of the Liv.

As we all know there is nothing more exciting than going shopping online and waiting on the day for the parcel to arrive and when the LELO arrives, you really feel the excitement.

Nestled in a little black box is your new and stylish sex toy. It comes complete with a small charger, booklet and a white silky bag that you can pop in to when it is not in use. The Liv is with FDA-approved and phthalate-free PC-ABS/ silicone, it can last up to 4 hours after just a 2 hour charge. So you are not going to run short of power all of a sudden. Because it is made of a safe silicone, you don’t need to worry about the sensitive skin of your vagina getting sore. Also this silicone is designed to be smooth and easy to slide in; in fact, it nearly feels similar to a real penis!

LELO Liv Vibrator Review

After unpacking it and sprinting up to the bedroom, I realised that I had found my new best friend. The controller is super stylish with a little glowing light around it and it’s super easy to use while you cant see it. Click the > arrow and the power increases, click the < arrow and it decreases the ^ arrow will start through 3 different pulse modes and the V arrow will bring it out of pulse. As for the power! Wow, where other vibrators leave you begging for more the Liv keeps on going up and up! It has 5 levels of vibration and the last is for shattering the earth.

One of the best things about the Liv is it’s shape. It’s sleek and straight but has a nice curve in it, so it can be used for gentile G-Spot stimulation if you want it. Also because it’s a tidy and practical size it can be used for extra stimulation during couple sex.

In summary, this is the best toy I’ve had my hands on since I discovered the battery! Every woman should have one.

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After our visit to a sex toys trade show we are updating and expanding the rage of products that we will be selling. From next week (depending on suppliers delivery time) we will be stocking a small introductory range of ID lubes.

We chatted to the guys at ID lubes and they gave us samples to try at the show. Don’t worry folks we didn’t strip off in the middle of the exhibition. We were given the opportunity to try the lubes on our hands and we were blown away.

ID Glide Lubricant was so soft but not sticky. It had a silky smooth feel that felt like a natural female lubricant. ID Glide is water based so cannot damage condoms or toys, what we loved about it was that it was also doctor recommended and has been voted number one in the adult industry since 1995. We could really see why. As with all ID lubes you can revive it with a simple lick or sprits of water. It’s never sticky, does not stain and is virtually orderless and tasteless. We love this brilliant clear lube.

ID Millennium was our favourite at the show. This lube is silicone based so it does not get dry or absorb into the skin. We loved it cos it felt so good! It’s so silky and soft that it doubles as a massage oil and seems to last forever. It’s ideal for under water adventures too, as it still stays slippy and there is nothing more fun than sex in the bath! Just remember silicone based lubes are not compatible with silicone toys, so be careful with your favourite bedside friend.

Finally we fell in love with ID moments lubricant as this was the most gentle on sensitive skin, it is both glycerin and paraben free plus its water -based. However, unlike other glycerin free lubes it does not dry out rapidly. Designed with women in mind they have given it the most delicious and subtle apple scent. Because it is water-based it is also condom and toy compatible.

These great products will be with us next week.

So we are off to the ETO trade show next Monday, really looking forward to it. There will be a 4:00am start to get to Dublin airport and we should be back by about 9:00pm the same day so lots of hard work. Hopefully we will pick up some bargans and great toys to sell so keep an eye on the site for some serious bargains!

Having a vibrator can be a lot more fun than using it for it’s intended task. You vibrator an not only stimulate the clitoris and vulva but may also be used as a foreplay toy.

When you get your vibrator for the first time, spend a few minutes getting familiar with how it works. This will mean that you can easily adjust the settings mid play. Get warm and comfortable and also get the vibrator warmed up, you can do this by putting it in warm water if it is waterproof or simply popping it under your leg to heat it up.

Your vibrator is for more than vaginal or anal play. You can use it to stimulate the more sensitive parts of your body. Put the vibrator on it’s lowest setting first and use it to explore. If you start with some of your clothes on then you can heighten the experience.

Begin by running it up and down your arms and legs, across your belly, your shoulders, neck and face. Enjoy how it feels everywhere, this is your bit of foreplay. After your have explored your body, slowly move the vibrator up the inside of your legs and around your breasts and nipples.

You may find that you prefer to use your vibrator for stimulating the clitoris or for penetration, some women find that different positions of the legs and body will make a difference too. Linger on the bits that feel good, you may find that the longer you leave it there the more intense the feeling gets.

Some vibrators have varying speeds, start with the lowest setting and work you way up, as you get more excited the higher settings will fell less intense and more pleasurable.

Remember to relax and enjoy your vibrator, if your vibrator is designed to be used for penetration then you may wish find that pressing the vibrator against the front of your vagina will give you g-spot stimulation and may be much more pleasurable and intense than clitoral stimulation.

Recommended Vibrators

Mini Mates Fever Vibrator

Whispers Tranquility Vibrator

Pocket Queen Vibrator

LELO Iris Vibrator

Valentines day is the ultimate aphrodisiac and this year it’s falling on a Sunday.

Men can underestimate the sexual value of Valentines Day and the effect it can have on the night. A woman’s idea of foreplay is not just a fondle under the covers before bed time. Foreplay for a woman and the success of sexual arousal can depend on her whole day! If she has had a stressful or bad day then sex is not very likely.

Use Valentine’s day as a full day of ‘foreplay’. I’m not saying that you need to keep her on the edge from dawn until dusk, but make her feel good from start to finish.

Begin the day with breakfast in bed, but cook something. She gets a break from her diet today, but still make her think you care about it. “I have cream whipped for the pancakes, but popped it in a bowl cos I know you are working hard on your diet… I wont tell anyone if you take a break today”.

Go back downstairs and tidy the mess you made cooking and see if there are any chores that you can help with before she comes down. She will appreciate this and will be able to relax more.

Now… Go out for the day! Head out somewhere nice and fun, this could be shopping, the zoo, the park etc, but do something. Remember that lunch is important too, make sure you know where you are going for lunch… plan everything.

If you are cooking a dinner have everything you need the day before. There is nothing more irritating than a disorganised valentines day.
If it is takeaway have a bottle of wine ready, something really tasty and nice… and make sure it’s HER favourite not yours (hold your nose and drink the white even if you don’t like it)
If you are going out, try to book NOW so that you get a good restaurant an early time… so she is not tired when you get home.

Finally, run a bath for her and let her soak while you tidy u after dinner. Once everything is put away and she has nothing to think of, bring in a glass of bubbly and join her in the bath.

The rest of the night is yours, this is where you can bring out the toys!

Bedroom Tips

• Buy sensual and exciting toys
• Light a few candles, but make sure they are safe. Nowhere they can set something on fire, burn or mark the walls or where they can spill on you (unless your into that sort of thing).
• Make sure the bed and the bedroom is warm, its very hard for a woman to get aroused when she is cold
• Have fun! Giggle, grope fondle and chase… remember its sex not a novel make it exciting

Recommended Valentine’s Day Gifts

LELO Mona

Better Than Chocolate

Sexy V String Teddy

Diamond Princess

The G-Spot is an area on the front wall of the vagina, it is located about two to three inches in and when stimulated, can cause women to orgasm and sometimes even ejaculate.

When stimulated it can create a more intense orgasm than clitoral stimulation, however not all women will orgasm through G-Spot stimulation.

When the G-Spot is stimulated you may find that a sudden gush of wetness right before orgasm. Or you might experience a nice big spray of come at orgasm.

The best way to achieve a female ejaculation is to stimulate the G-spot with a firm, curved dildo or a vibrator. Insert it into your vagina aiming for the front wall of the vagina. Stroke this area with a “come hither” motion. If you use your fingers, you’ll feel the difference in texture between this area, which is rough, and the rest of the vaginal walls, which are smooth. You can also press down on your pelvis with your free hand, applying pressure just above the pubic bone. Stimulate your G-spot until you feel intensely turned on and like you’re about to pee. As you approach orgasm, push out, as if urinating. The stream you produce is ejaculate.

Recommended Products

LELO Gigi

LELO GIGI is the ultimate connoisseur as far as giving pleasure is concerned, focusing on the source of some the most satisfying sensations a woman can ever experience. An elegant mid-size G-spot vibrator as beautiful to the eye as she is to touch, GIGI’s flattened tip is perfect for exploring the many possibilities of this most erogenous of zones.

Her unique design also allows for varied clitoral and vaginal stimulation, applied across five modes which are all easily adjustable to her user’s desire. The ideal gift for individuals and couples alike, GIGI shows her users what it means to melt into ecstasy, where the sense of pleasure becomes impossible to describe.

Rock Chick

Size 5.5″ x 0.75″ (probe) – The award winning Rock Chick vibrator has arrived!
The Rock Chick G Spot vibrator has been designed for exquisite simultaneous G spot and clitoral massage. This multi orgasmic combination stimulates you for a truly erotic and sensual experience.
The flexible curve of Rock Chick allows you to insert the shaft whilst the end stimulates the clitoral area.
When positioned a gentle rocking motion from the palm of your hand is all that is required
Hands Free Orgasms!